tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22679198.post116227118366468393..comments2023-10-29T07:50:52.660-04:00Comments on Lazy Life: What's the deal?Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03263588140420221505noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22679198.post-1162469870496312982006-11-02T07:17:00.000-05:002006-11-02T07:17:00.000-05:00I think you have to get involved in some activity ...I think you have to get involved in some activity that has the kind of people you want to get to know. I speak from experience. I dumped all of my old bult-up friends when I was about your age. Well, they moved away. this was about the time I joined the forum. I just decided it wuold be better to be alone than keep making the same kinds of friends. I've made friends at work (other historians and now editors-- smart women and some men) and now I have horsey friends (no-nonsense women...I think the trick is to give up on finding soul mates and to go buffet-style, a little bit here and there. Maybe I'll find a great girl friend one day, in-the-flesh, I dunno...but interesting conversationalists I can restpect and laugh with will do for now :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com